Wednesday, December 25, 2019
Want to get ahead at work Be happy.
Want to get ahead at work Be happy.Want to get ahead at work Be happy.Im not an inherently positive and optimistic person. Im also kind of proud of that. I love the part of me thats sarcastic and dark. I like that my snarky comments make people laugh. I also believe maintaining a healthy amount of cynicism is what makes me feel intellectually superior. Ignorance is bliss, after all. But I do (begrudgingly) realize there are concrete ways that being happy at work can get you ahead. A study in the Journal of Personal Psychology noted that positive emotions actually help you get stronger when you face a major challenge being able to move on despite negative stressors does not demonstrate luck on the part of those successful individuals but demonstrates a concept known as resilience resilient individuals have optimistic, zestful, and energetic approaches to life, are curious and open to new experiences, and are characterized by high positive emotionality. So positivity is a good thing. L ets look at why.Being happy gives you a competitive edge. When faced with a problem, optimistic people see lots of possibilities. Positive thinking helps you see choices and outcomes that negative people dont, because theyre too focused on the limitations. Tom Brady, the man of the moment with five solid Super Bowl wins, prides himself on staying positive. I dont get caught up in negativity and bashing other people and Im very blessed. I get to do something I love to do, he answered when asked about a scandal affecting his team. Bradys favorite book is a self-help classic, The Four Agreements, whose author Miguel Ruiz has said, we must forgive those that have wronged us, not bc they deserve to be forgiven, but bc we dont want to keep paying for the injustice. When you absorb negativity, you keep paying for those injustices - and that slows you down. Being happy helps you stand out from the disgruntled crowd.Lets face it. A lot of workers in a lot of offices are not happy about bein g there. They complain, they whine, they talk about everything that they dont like. Their sour expressions and everything fails outlooks arent unique - theyre all too common. It takes vision to see that, even if things are broken, they can be fixed and they can improve. If you can cultivate that vision, youll reap a lot of recognition and maybe even some financial rewards.Being happy provides some job security.Well-liked people tend to go further in companies and life in general. As Harrison Barnes wrote in the Harvard Business Review, being well-liked in a work environment is an important thing in any job. If you are not liked by your peers, your superiors may think clients will not like you either. If superiors do not like you, you will not get a lot of work. If you are isolated from others within your organization, it is far easier to let you go in times of economic uncertainty. You need to always be in a position where others want to do you a favor and help you out. Likeability and positivity usually go together. Again, its all too common to see the downsides of work and be blind to the upsides. I saw this in my own life. When I was in college and waiting tables for a living, I got fired because my personality didnt have enough flair. Remember Jennifer Aniston in Office Space? Yep, that was me. When it comes to cuts and layoffs, Debbie Downer is definitely the first to go. Being happy pays.Its true. According to an economist in Australia who conducted a study, a person who is completely satisfied with life earns $1,766.7 more than one who is completely unsatisfied with life. So money still cant buy happiness, but happiness can make you money. Being happy even when you arent.Right now, I have a job I want to get up and go to, its a great company and a really fun place to work. Im a naturally positive person at work, but if I had a different job that I didnt like as much, what would I do? Quit? Thats one idea. But heres another, more interesting one. I can rewire my brain to be happy. Because I have superpowers? No, silly. Because I watched a TED Talk on the subject.According to Shawn Achor, the worlds leading positive psychology expert (yes, thats a thing) and the most popular teacher at Harvard, this is totally possible. Heres how it works. You write down three new things that youre grateful for 21 days in a row. Journaling about a positive experience you had during the past 24 hours allows your brain to relive it. And after three weeks of this, you start to retain a pattern of scanning the world for the positive, rather than the negative. elend only does this sound really cool, it sounds kind of fun, right? I guess thats the point.
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